Oh, this one is easy! There are so many things that make me grateful that I am breathing. Right now, it's the prospect of Spring. Warmer weather means more outdoor activities, which equates to more bike riding.
Every day, I'm excited to be married to my beautiful husband. I mean it. Every single day.
The little things also excite me. A new bud forming on my rose bush. Snuggling with my fur babies. Trying something new.
I think we humans get into such concrete routines, that we forget to take a moment to really appreciate what we have around us. If we stop wishing for more, and be thankful for what we have, then I truly believe that the majority of us would be pretty darn satisfied.
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Sensible....
3. What’s the most sensible thing you’ve ever heard someone say?
Say, out loud? One thing that comes to mind is something my Dad said to me: "I'm not going to tell you not to do it, because then you'll do it anyway. I just better not ever get a phone call from jail, because I won't accept the collect call."
Yeah, that pretty much kept me out of some sticky situations growing up, and probably, subconsciously, is still keeping me on the somewhat right path.
It's easy to decide NOT to do something that may or may not result in being handcuffed and hauled off to the big house when you know that you may just have to stay awhile.
This also applied to stupid decisions I made that forced me to call my Dad for help. He was basically telling me he was not ever going to grant me a bailout. Once, when I was younger, I needed money to pay my cell phone bill. I called him up, begged for money, and was abruptly diconnected by way of him slamming down the receiver. The conversation, in a nutshell was pretty much I was an adult, with a job (navy), so I should be able to pay my own bills. If I wasn't able, then I was doing something wrong. That's when I learned that he meant the entire set of definitions for the phrase bailout.
This has taught me that it's MY responsibility, and mine alone to make sure that I can take care of what needs to be taken care of. Noah and I are a great team in that we discuss big ticket items with each other (I don't just go out and buy a $50 game or $100s in clothes). This keeps us from the fights that many people have over money.
Say, out loud? One thing that comes to mind is something my Dad said to me: "I'm not going to tell you not to do it, because then you'll do it anyway. I just better not ever get a phone call from jail, because I won't accept the collect call."
Yeah, that pretty much kept me out of some sticky situations growing up, and probably, subconsciously, is still keeping me on the somewhat right path.
It's easy to decide NOT to do something that may or may not result in being handcuffed and hauled off to the big house when you know that you may just have to stay awhile.
This also applied to stupid decisions I made that forced me to call my Dad for help. He was basically telling me he was not ever going to grant me a bailout. Once, when I was younger, I needed money to pay my cell phone bill. I called him up, begged for money, and was abruptly diconnected by way of him slamming down the receiver. The conversation, in a nutshell was pretty much I was an adult, with a job (navy), so I should be able to pay my own bills. If I wasn't able, then I was doing something wrong. That's when I learned that he meant the entire set of definitions for the phrase bailout.
This has taught me that it's MY responsibility, and mine alone to make sure that I can take care of what needs to be taken care of. Noah and I are a great team in that we discuss big ticket items with each other (I don't just go out and buy a $50 game or $100s in clothes). This keeps us from the fights that many people have over money.
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Question 2.
2. Who do you sometimes compare yourself to?
I believe that it is human nature to compare yourself to everyone. I think it's kind of a systems check. How you deal with the results determines what type of person you are. I compare my knowledge level at work to my coworkers, I compare my singing ability to other singers, and I compare my looks to just about everyone in the world. Does it consume me? Maybe the first comparison. I pride myself on my knowledge, and am continually striving to expand it. Singing is a personal expression of our feelings. So if someone sounds better than I do, I dwell for a second, then remind myself that the way someone is singing a song is THEIR way, not mine. As for looks, and this is where many people get consumed, yes, I compare myself to others. If people didn't do a check on how they compare to others, if they didn't care about the way they looked, they would wind up in pajamas in the middle of the day cruising the aisles of Wal-Mart. I will NEVER wear PJs to Wal-Mart for a routine shopping excursion. Granted, if there is an emergency that requires an item carried at that store, and it's 3 in the morning, then yes, I may be seen in at least sweats or yesterday's clothes.
I believe that it is human nature to compare yourself to everyone. I think it's kind of a systems check. How you deal with the results determines what type of person you are. I compare my knowledge level at work to my coworkers, I compare my singing ability to other singers, and I compare my looks to just about everyone in the world. Does it consume me? Maybe the first comparison. I pride myself on my knowledge, and am continually striving to expand it. Singing is a personal expression of our feelings. So if someone sounds better than I do, I dwell for a second, then remind myself that the way someone is singing a song is THEIR way, not mine. As for looks, and this is where many people get consumed, yes, I compare myself to others. If people didn't do a check on how they compare to others, if they didn't care about the way they looked, they would wind up in pajamas in the middle of the day cruising the aisles of Wal-Mart. I will NEVER wear PJs to Wal-Mart for a routine shopping excursion. Granted, if there is an emergency that requires an item carried at that store, and it's 3 in the morning, then yes, I may be seen in at least sweats or yesterday's clothes.
Monday, March 28, 2011
Inspiration From a Friend
I have been inspired. Eli, a great friend of mine, has given me an idea on how to actually commit to posting on this here blog.
Using the list here, I'm going to answer one question a day for the next year. Granted, I'm starting with one follower on here (Thank you, Iva!), but maybe I'll get more friends (an ironic statement. I have many friends, and I am thankful for all of them).
So, here goes:
This has also made me realize that it's probably been a long time since I have tried anything that is new that is actually interesting. This will have to change. Soon. I can't continue to be mundane in a mundane world.
Using the list here, I'm going to answer one question a day for the next year. Granted, I'm starting with one follower on here (Thank you, Iva!), but maybe I'll get more friends (an ironic statement. I have many friends, and I am thankful for all of them).
So, here goes:
- When was the last time you tried something new?
This has also made me realize that it's probably been a long time since I have tried anything that is new that is actually interesting. This will have to change. Soon. I can't continue to be mundane in a mundane world.
Friday, March 11, 2011
Bike MS Fundraising Plea
The National Multiple Sclerosis Society is dedicated to ending the devastating effects of MS but they can't do it without our help. It's faster and easier than ever to support this cause that's so important to us. Simply go to the websites at the bottom of this flyer.
Noah is riding 60 miles for the Fight, and I am volunteering the day of the race. Please help us reach our fundraising goals.
Any amount, great or small, helps to make a difference in the lives of people with MS. We appreciate your support and look forward to letting you know how Noah does in the ride.
P.S. If you would like more information about the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, how proceeds from the MS Bike Tour are used, or the other ways you can get involved in the fight against MS, please visit www.nationalmssociety.org.
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